Nolan cooked ribs for 15 hours. Dylan showed up to the carnival with a hickey. The bar could not be more clearly defined.
Episode 6 is quieter than the five that came before it, and more honest because of it. The big confrontations are done for now. What the show does instead is pull its characters into smaller, more private moments — a kitchen in Miami, a date with ribs and martinis, a sound bath where someone starts getting emotional about a man — and let them say the things they’ve been circling around all season. Not everything gets resolved. But a lot gets named.
Raine’s Back
Raine returns from Europe and walks into a full debrief at Moonphaze. Nicole and Alexie catch her up on everything — the TikTok, the bad date, Dylan redirecting the blame to Nicole, the rooftop kiss. She’s been gone long enough that the group has rearranged itself in her absence.
The detail that lands hardest in the debrief is small: when Suede texted Jemma to tell her about Dylan pursuing her, she spelled Jemma’s name wrong. Gemma. The girls all laugh. It’s the kind of detail that says everything without saying anything.
Alexie talks about Emilie and the Ben situation. Her read is precise: it’s not about the boy. Emilie does this with everything in life. If Alexie were to bring it up, Emilie would say “he chose me, you’re just jealous” — and she’s right, which is the most frustrating part. Raine tells her she might just be wasting her breath. Alexie agrees.
Nicole’s cameras line is the episode’s first gut punch: “The ‘she never did anything to me’ is the worst mindset to have. Because if someone’s willing to do something to another one of their friends, you’re next.”
Preston & Larsa in Miami
Preston escaped to Miami after the Dylan/Preston blame situation, and the show follows him there for one of the season’s most grounded scenes. He’s at his mom Larsa’s house making her a cappuccino when she starts asking about his life.
Larsa has already offered him a Porsche and a Lamborghini truck to get him to move back in. He says everyone’s trying to buy him with a car. She asks if his dad is doing the same. She admits Scottie’s got a bigger wallet.
Preston tells the cameras that his parents’ divorce when he was 15 was rough — there was an affair, and kids at school would play music by the rapper his mom was seeing at the time. It’s easier to talk about now because he’s so removed from it. But the balancing act between his parents hasn’t gone away. His mom is in Miami, his dad is in Calabasas, and every choice he makes about where to be feels like it lands on someone’s side of a ledger.
Larsa tells him he needs a job. She’s read that more college graduates than ever are moving back home, and she wants to know if his friends have jobs. He says not really. She says get into finance. He tells her his Miami friends are more driven than his Calabasas ones — and without naming Dylan, he tells her he thought he had more in common with someone than he does, and that everything people said about that person is starting to be true.
It’s the most honest Preston has been all season, and he said it to his mom in a kitchen in Florida.
Emilie & Emma at Health Nut
Emilie wants to know how Emma feels about the Ben kiss. Emma tells her it stung — not because of the outcome, but because she had told Emilie she was excited about him, and Emilie could have paused in the moment, told Ben she liked him, and gone to talk to Emma first before anything happened. That’s how she’d want her friendships handled.
Emilie tells the cameras: “I don’t think it’s fair to get mad at someone when he chose to hang out with me. There’s no way I’m not kissing him. He’s so hot. There’s a lot of sour grapes, probably enough to make wine, but I like wine.”
Later. Emilie is talking to producers outside of Health Nut. Then a producer flags that Alexie just walked past them outside. Emilie says she didn’t even see her. “Doesn’t even say hi? Maybe she heard me being like, ‘oh, she’s backstabbing me.’ That just goes to show how small Calabasas is.”
Jemma & Nolan
He made ribs. He cooked them overnight, fifteen hours. He made martinis immediately. When Jemma walked in and saw the setup, she tells the cameras she felt like she didn’t deserve it — like someone was going to jump out and tell her it was a joke. “I have this idea in my head where ‘no guy will ever want to do this for you, you’re not worth that.’”
They sit down. She tells him this is her first date. He asks about her dating history. She tells him about Dylan — the years of hooking up without ever actually dating, the toxicity, the way it never resolved into anything real. He listens. He doesn’t perform shock or judgment. He just asks where she’s at now, and she tells him she’s having fun, she’s 23, and she’s figuring it out.
The chemistry between them is quiet and earned. He walks her to the door at the end of the night and asks “same time next week?” She says yeah. They kiss in the doorway. He tells her to text when she gets home.
Jemma tells the cameras: “I think this date healed a little part of me. Dating is normal. You’re allowed to like a guy. You’re allowed to pursue a guy. This was my first step in doing that.”
Fifteen hours of ribs and one text-me-when-you’re-home. Dylan had four years.
The Carnival
Dylan shows up to the carnival with a hickey on his neck. Nicole clocks it immediately.
The girls separate from the boys and catch up over fair food. Nicole fills Suede in on what she’s been observing. Suede says she cares about Dylan — she sees him in her life for the next ten years, whether as a friend or something more. Nicole tells the cameras she’s seen this pattern before in Calabasas guys, and it’s going worse than she expected.
Nicole tells Suede directly that a week into whatever this is, Dylan is already trying to create a rift between them. She tells her how hurt she was by the FaceTime ambush. Suede apologizes — says it didn’t come from malice, that it came off wrong because Dylan was right there, and she should have handled it differently. Nicole accepts it and says her piece clearly: she doesn’t like this man, but if he makes Suede happy and doesn’t come between them, she’ll support whatever Suede wants.
Then Dylan wins Suede a stuffed capybara. Then a pig. Suede tells the cameras she doesn’t know why she goes for the bad boy, but something keeps pulling her toward him.
On the other side of the fair, Preston and Alexie finally have the conversation they’ve been avoiding. She apologizes for the Ben situation, feels weird not knowing where they stand. He tells her she doesn’t need to apologize — they’ve never clearly communicated their boundaries, so he didn’t take offense. She says she didn’t know he had feelings for her. He says “I feel like I try to say — yeah, I have feelings for you.” They hug.
It’s the most straightforward thing Preston has said all season. It takes a fair, a stuffed capybara, and five episodes of circling to get there.
Ben & Emilie’s Date
They get ice cream and sit by a pond, where Howie Mandel appears to look at turtles. Emilie is starstruck.
The date itself is warm — they talk about family, about New York, about long distance. Emilie says she thinks all good things have difficulties, and working through something like that only makes a relationship stronger. She’s already picturing them married, looking back at the hard part.
Ben asks if anyone will be upset about the kiss. Emilie says she doesn’t think there’s anything to worry about. The cameras have just spent twenty minutes establishing that Alexie walked past her without saying hi and Emma said it stung.
She also tells Ben about the Hercy date — says she kind of felt bad saying no, so she went. “He asked me on a date, and you know, I wasn’t really gonna say no. I kind of felt bad.” Ben: “Doing him a favor.” She confirms there was no spark and no second date. The show lets that sit.
Emilie tells the cameras that Ben is so mature and she loves that he’s not involved in the drama. “As much as I try to run away, it follows me. It haunts me. Everywhere I go, the drama just comes. It’s like stuck in my hair.”
Sterling & His Dad
Brief but worth noting: Sterling finds out he’s on hold for a big job in New York and calls his dad to share the news. His dad, who works in oil in Alaska, asks if modeling is sustainable, floats the idea of Sterling designing wells, and reminds him that kids are expensive and life is decisions. Sterling listens, thanks him, and hangs up.
He’s been the show’s most grounded cast member all season. It turns out he comes by it honestly.
Nicole & Suede at the Sound Bath
The episode’s best scene. They’re at Cele Wellness doing a sound bath together, and when it’s over, Suede is emotional. She tells the cameras she started thinking about Dylan during it and couldn’t stop.
They sit on the floor after the instructor leaves and talk. Nicole brings up the hickey. Suede says she saw it but didn’t say anything — she didn’t want to ask and hear an answer she didn’t want to hear. Nicole says it’s red flag after red flag. Suede says she just sees so much good in him and that him being sober is a hundred brownie points.
Then Nicole tells her she heard Dylan went on a date with Emilie’s best friend two nights before the carnival. Suede: “But then he shows up at the carnival all lovey-dovey on me and wants to hang out with me. It’s like, why? For what? I’m getting to the point where I’m like, dude, I don’t want to be played around with.”
She tells Nicole about Dylan coming to her house, playing with her cat, playing house. It felt like they were together. “Now you’re embarrassing me. If he doesn’t like me, just tell me. Tell me you don’t want me.”
Nicole, steady: “My feelings aside, it’s your feelings that matter. What do you want to do?”
Suede says it’s a conversation she’s going to have to have. It’s going to be tough.
Nicole tells the cameras: “The path she’s going, I’ve seen it before. It’s one of those situations where the guy can do whatever the hell he wants, and she’ll take it. She’ll make excuses for him. Kind of like what I’m doing for Suede, she’s doing for Dylan. It hurts my heart. But it’s something she has to experience at this point.”
What Episode 6 Is Really About
Episode 6 is about the gap between what people say they want and what they’re willing to ask for. Jemma went on her first real date and let herself feel like she deserved it — that’s small and enormous at the same time. Suede watched Dylan show up with a hickey, win her stuffed animals, and play house at her apartment, and she’s still waiting for him to say out loud that he wants her. Preston told Alexie he has feelings for her, finally, at a county fair. Emilie is telling Ben there’s nothing to worry about while Alexie walks past her without speaking.
The city doesn’t always eat you alive. Sometimes it just makes you wait long enough that you convince yourself the situation is fine.
Calabasas Confidential Season 1 is streaming now on Netflix.
Want to catch up on more epsiodes?
- ‘Calabasas Confidential’ Episode 1 Recap: Everyone Gets Hungry at Midnight
- ‘Calabasas Confidential’ Episode 2: The Biggest Carnival In Alaska
- ‘Calabasas Confidential’ Episode 3: He Needs Five More Years to Cook
- ‘Calabasas Confidential’ Episode 4: I Believe In Action
- ‘Calabasas Confidential’ Episode 5: You Got the Rat
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